You, who are on the road; must have a code you try to live by; and so become yourself; because the past is just a goodbye; teach your children well.
~ Graham Nash
Parents teach their children about success by reference to how things were during their productive years. To my grandparents, success was a job in the front office at the factory, rather than on the production floor. My parents hoped that their children would become professionals. I wanted my children to achieve some work/life balance.